Saturday, December 31, 2005

News Year's Eve

I'm wearing shorts and a tanktop; it must be New Year's Eve in Houston.

Carmen is asleep, David is asleep, Matt is asleep, the cat is asleep. Dogs are parking, fireworks are popping, and a Tejano boom-boom-boom fills out the soundscape. I'm sitting here thinking about 2005 and 2006 and if Carmen will stay asleep when midnight strikes. And I'm thinking I need to show you some pictures.

More visitors this week: Grandma and Grandpa Reisdorf from California.

C&D loved having company so eager to play and read and play some more. When they come again the visit will be even better--we're finally going to have a screen porch installed out back, with lots of room for wagons and horses and (shhhh, it's a secret) sandbox and water table. We talk to someone about the porch tomorrow.

The fireworks are getting louder. Best to hurry . . .

Today while Matt and I were cleaning up we discovered that C&D invented a new game: poke at your sibling through the mesh of the kid corral. We tried to catch it with the camera, but these babes are a lot like Schrodinger's Cat; the simple act of getting the camera out altered their behaviour. But if you watch this video, you might get the idea. It's almost midnight--Happy New Year.

Thursday, December 29, 2005

Easy as un Pastel

Frequently when we are out and about with the babies, people take the liberty of making the kinds of comments that we are not supposed to hear, but that we do, anyway. Our first trip to the Galleria, I heard "Wowzers!" from a 30-something daddy type when he noticed both Matt and I carrying tiny babies. And I have heard many variations of "Oh-my-God-look-TWINS!" in English and Spanish. And even Russian, in fact. I know this because the one English speaker of the group grilled me on behalf of his friends. "How old?" "Your first?" "Their names?"

I don't, however, need a translator if somebody is talking about me in Spanish. Galleria pilgrims from Mexico, and fellow Houstonians who think the Spanish language comes in one color (brown), let me tell you: I hear you, and I understand you.

I used to get annoyed at the fact that you talked about my little tribe in your preferred tongue without even bothering to whisper. "Hell-o," I would think. "I know what you're saying!" But this time was different.

Today, Matt and I wore the babies, as usual, while taking a late afternoon walk through Houston's see-and-be-seen pseudo-plaza, the Galleria. A mother pushing a large stroller walked alongside a man holding a toddler, his arms sagging with the weight. The mother nodded my direction and snorted to her husband in Spanish, "Look! They have two and they make it look easy!" I laughed.

That was a real compliment. She didn't know that I would understand her, so she wasn't trying to be polite or gratuitous in her observation. She meant it.

So, Spanish speakers, go ahead. Say whatever you want. I'll pretend that I'm not understanding you. I've decided I like knowing what you really think.

R-e-s-p-e-c-t

You know how a passage in a book (or, on this case, on the computer) sometimes stops you in your busy-ness, and makes you pause for a while and think?

Looking something up, and came across this:
Children, like everyone else, tend to live up to our expectations or down to our disrespect. Love is not enough; the respect that we give our children and that we insist on in return is the key. Don't ask your children to earn your respect and trust, assume that they deserve to be treated with respect from the beginning.
Hmph. Nice. It's from A Children's House at home (Copyright 2003 by Montessori International magazine, www.montessorimagazine.com).

Same magazine made me laugh out loud a few weeks ago:
Are we giving a baby dignity when we unbox a plastic telephone on wheels with a silly face? (Copyright 2003 by Montessori International magazine, www.montessorimagazine.com)
I remember those phones . . . they are a little undignified, come to think of it!

Grandparents Reisdorf are here this week; pictures tomorrow night or over the weekend.

Monday, December 26, 2005

Merry Christmas 2005

A theme for this Christmas: Not American Colonial or Glam (who, us?) or Grinch (definitely not us!); this Christmas was about movement. Movement that C&D have been waiting 11 months to achieve: standing and kneeling, bending and climbing, crawling and rocking, pushing and pulling, grabbing and giving. We can't just plop a baby on a rug and walk away--the thwap, thwap, thwap of fat little palms on the wood floor tell us that we have lost all remaining privacy, and also that we should forever be prepared for finding a full-scale disaster the next time we notice that the house is quiet.

Of course, we keep giving C&D gifts that will only help them learn to be faster, stronger, and more confident in their exploits. What have we been thinking?

Pushing a wagon is hard work.


How to turn the wagon, now?


This Christmas was not white, unless you consider the gravel at Godwin Park. Christmas Day after opening our gifts
which, remember, included a pair of Kleenex boxes,



we relaxed and played and in the evening took a trip to the park to swing,
swing, swing.

We only stayed at the park a half hour, but those sight of those two giggly babes on the baby swingset made my day.

Monday, a visit from my parents and brother who came bearing gifts. The rocking horses were a hit, though of course C&D need a little help getting on and off.
They haven't figured out how to make any more than a strong wiggle on the rockers, but they'll be riding off into the sunset soon enough.

Both babies enjoyed the company, especially Carmen. Since night before last she has a bit of congestion and a postnasal drip kind of cough, but after taking yesterday slow she is her normal, silly self today. I have no complaints about the timing of her sniffles--this is the first illness for either of them.

Saturday, December 24, 2005

Christmas Eve

This morning after such a full and exciting Friday we all slept in until 7:30. When we woke up we put on our hats and drove to the Kroger to get a few basics for the weekend like salad and salsa and tortilla chips. It had been so long since I had shopped at a non-organic, non-chichi, plain old grocery that I felt a little overwhelmed trying to push around the oversized grocery basket through an oversized store with oversized endcap displays and oversized aisles of potato chips and PopTarts. Whew.

The second and more pleasant phase of our mission involved a trip to Teas Nursery to pick out a Christmas tree. While we were looking at the sweetgum trees, John Teas asked us if we needed help. I told him that the sweetgums were a little too tall to fit in our car (did he also hear me when I told Matt I didn't want to pay $54 for a tree this year?). He kindly helped us select a short, stout (and less expensive, cough) holly. Now I can say I have bought a bike from Joy Boone, and a Christmas tree from John Teas. Nice.

Merry Christmas. Santa has already visited Beverly's house next door, as evidenced by the reindeer bells and clomping on the roof that Matt and I heard right before Baby Bedtime (and caused us to wonder if our water heater was about to explode).

Friday, December 23, 2005

A Big 11-Monthday

Today we visited Maxine Johnston (right) and Ann Roberts in the Big Thicket town of Batson. What a wonderful visit. We talked and ate lunch and played with babies and then talked some more. We also got to meet Lorraine Bonney. Maxine took more and better pictures, I think, but here is one from my camera:
The babies had a wonderful time exploring Maxine's house ("and look how the coffee table is just the perfect height for cruising," C&D said), throwing O's on her rugs, and soaking up lots of attention and love from so many aunties! Even quiet David gave everyone lots of smiles.

We are determined to go back as soon as Maxine can have us again. The drive is about a hour and a half, about as long as the babies will tolerate in the car if they fall asleep before we leave Houston city limits. Plus, Maxine's house is right near the Lance Rosier Unit, and Matt and I are enthusiastic to take them a good hike soon, before the bugs come back. Sigh. What a fun day.

C&D slept on the way home, and then wanted to play, play, play. Carmen has gotten proficient at pushing her wagon:

and wears such a big smile on her face when she walks behind it. If we load it with my zafu and a box full of Waldorf dollmaking supplies, the wagon is very, very stable. The only problem is that we have to help her turn it around or back up so she can go again; the stiff wheels and broad base don't really allow the wagon to turn. I guess we need a bigger house, or a longer hallway.

Tomorrow is Christmas Eve and we still need to buy our Christmas tree to take the place of the 2004 magnolia that we killed this spring. And we need to wrap, wrap, wrap our presents for our visitors next week. We won't bother wrapping the babies' presents, and in fact have already given them a few here and there, especially on days that have been particularly hairy and I've needed a distraction besides the pots and pans (loud!) or playing with the tupperware cabinet (out of Tupperware! It's all in the freezer!). Favorites from the Christmas closet so far have been their Haba Trix and a mesmerizing Kugelbahn top. Matt has a special surprise for them that they will get to play with on Christmas Day--boxes of Kleenex. (Hey, you won't tell, will you?) C&D--especially David--have so much fun taking things in and out of boxes, that a box of Kleenex should be pure baby-bliss.

Good night!

Thursday, December 22, 2005

Babies Everywhere

Playing at home.


Visit with Brooke.



Carmen clapping. They've both been "clapping" by slapping their hand against ours (a "five," basically) for a while now; nice to see that Carmen figured out that clapping is something she can also do on her own.
Edited the code so now the video should work. I just noticed her face in this video--so ordinary, as if she is doing nothing special at all. Silly kid.

Driving out to the Thicket to visit Maxine in Batson today. Hope the babies don't mind the drive. I know they'll be glad for the visit, though; Maxine is fun.

Wednesday, December 21, 2005

Oh, the places we'll go!

Over the weekend a happy little synapse activated in David's brain, and he realized that he could crawl right out the living room, down the hall, and then make a right and wind up in the kitchen. And then he could make another right and wind up in the office/dining room, and then back into the living room. Carmen made that realization today, which made it a day for baby parades of sorts, Carmen following her brother.

Today Carmen also figured out how to clap, and later how to slap my butt.

The Christmas holidays mean visiting friends and family for most of us, and our house is no different. The neighborhood kids are home from school and looking for things to do. This afternoon they helped me run a snake through my clogged pipes (in 2004 we had a clogged line on Super Bowl Sunday--what gives?). Then they helped wrap presents while David wrinkled the paper and got in their way. Before dinner we took C&D on a ride in the stroller. Tyse pushed, Jairo made sure David didn't lose his wool hat, and Aaron and Daniela from down the street came along, too. I felt like a regular mother duck. After walking around the block and hearing an earful of the usual elementary-school gross-out stories, I was ready to feed the babies--only two--dinner.

This week Brooke came to visit from North Carolina. More on that later--now it's time for bed!

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

Your E-Mail

Late last night, Matt and I almost lost a poop from Carmen. This morning I looked for the poopy diaper. (It wasn't in the diaper pail because with a front loader you really gotta wash pee diapers separately from poo diapers if really want your diapes to be clean . . . huge hassle . . . fortunately poo diapes are rare.) I couldn't find it so I left a quick message for Matt at work asking him about it. He e-mailed me this response:

OK, so if you're baking cookies, sometimes the dough all sticks together to itself so well that it just pops off the parchment paper that you have on the counter without leaving a trace? Well, we caught C early last night, and it all kind of stuck to her and not to the, uh, fuzzi parchment paper without really any trace. So I just filed it with the others in the big pail.

See if this gets by the email censors...

:)


I'm still laughing, an hour later.

Saturday, December 17, 2005

Snowmen and Babies



Snowmen and babies are both round.

Skipped off to Picture People last week to redeem another coupon from the mail (free sitting and 8x10). The photo session lasted only 20 minutes; the photographer's over-enthusiasm in an attempt to get them both to smile (simultaneously, of course) caused David to cry. I told him I understood; I think I would have cried if somebody had been laughing like an idiot and shaking a feather duster at me, too. We did get one other decent photo out of the session, and another that quite accurately reflected how they felt about the whole situation. While David clung to my shirt, we took a couple of photos of Carmen before she crawled off the dropcloth. I have more than the photos as a souvenir of this particular adventure. Carmen learned to imitate the photographer's syrupy imitation baby-laughing and amuses herself with the sound of it while riding in the car.

On the way home from the Picture People we spotted Santa in his chair, and no line to wait in for a visit. I decided to swing by to say hello (as if C&D hadn't enough of picture-taking, already, but . . .). He was a most lovely Santa, with a real beard and an East Texas accent (you know Santa winters here, don't you?). I placed Carmen on his lap and despite his best and most gentle cuddles, she dissolved into a puddle of tears. David, riding along with Fiona, saw Carmen cry and decided the morning had been so traumatic that he should start crying, too, loud and wailing like a fire truck. Or a baby who has just been scared out of his wits. So I apologized to Santa, wished him a Merry Christmas, and went on our way with two bona-fide North Pole candy canes, the cellophane wrap of which entertained the babies all the way to the car. Then Fiona and I confiscated and ate the candies.

Another highlight from this week: Carmen discovered bubble wrap. Because the babies would rather stand and stare out the window then sit down to use the potty or, worse, lie down for a diaper change, I brought out a sheet of crinkly bubble wrap to keep them occupied long enough to let us take care of business. The sheet drifted down onto the floor last night while Matt was working with David, and Carmen crawled over to it. While she was leaning on it she burst an air sac. A minute later we watched her kneel over the bubble wrap as high as she could, then forcefully fall on to it, popping an air sac with the heel of her hands. She laughed. And did it again.

Now, before we sign off, please enjoy a picture of David on our behalf.
I like to eat, eat eat eat, I like to eat, eat, Oatmeal and Molasses . . . (did you know that O's stick to your face if it's covered in molasses?).

Every now and then we meet a meal that simply must be applied to our faces, stuffed in our shirt sleeves, or, as in the case of this week's amaranth, stuffed in our diapers (no wonder we thought David ate so much!). Three cheers for the bathtub! Hip, hip, hurray!

Friday, December 16, 2005

Tuesday, December 13, 2005

I SPY

I spy




two babies




giggling.

Marketplace: Making a better Christmas tree

Oh, wow, I heard this about Christmas Trees.

Which reminds me, we should pick out a tree this weekend to decorate and then plant. We're thinking a sweetgum. Last year's sweet bay magnolia was pretty, and would be alive now if I didn't forget to water it (I was feeding babies! I didn't have time to water it! And how was I to know this was going to be one of the driest springs in ages? Doh!). We still feel guilty about it.

Sunday, December 11, 2005

Go, go, go!

C&D ready for a ride.

Whew. What a weekend. Made it to the Weihnachtsmarkt and then downtown to the lights at Houston City Hall. After a not-so-nappy day, and a night that involved too much playing and giggling at 3 AM, David decided to fall asleep on the way there. So, we waved at the crowd, Carmen visited a police horse, and then walked through Sam Houston Park as volunteers prepared for the annual Candlelight Tour. We'll have to visit Santa another time.

And move over, Purely O's, C&D discovered the crispy, crumbly joy of a rye cracker.

Saturday, December 10, 2005

More Amautik Pictures

I need a vacation to someplace cold before my babies get too big to ride along like this!

Friday, December 09, 2005

Whew.

We wondered if our babies had Non-Sleeping Sickness (the opposite of Sleeping Sickness, right?). But they're normal, after all. Whew.

One bit of information might help here: from a biological perspective, it is appropriate for babies to awaken during the night during the first year of life. In fact, although infants can be conditioned to sleep long and hard alone, and without intervention and, hence, fulfill the cultural expectation that the should sleep through the night, the fact remains that they were not designed to do so, and it may not be either in their best biological or psychological interest. As always, parental goals and needs lead parents to interpret their infant's behavior, including night awakenings, very differently. For example, many parents do not worry about night awakenings because especially where the babies sleep next to them, the infants are content and less likely to awaken and remain distressed.


Source: Mother-Baby Behavioral Sleep Laboratory FAQ

And this one was nice, too: Cultural Influences on Infant and Childhood Sleep Biology, and The Science that Studies It: Toward a More Inclusive Paradigm

Happy naps for babies everywhere . . .

Thursday, December 08, 2005

Wheeee!

Santa's reindeer better be fast, because we'll be hot on heels with this jogging stroller. We've wanted one for a while but not until this week did the perfect stroller pop up on Craig's List.



Haven't tried it out yet (trying NOT to freeze babies), but we will, soon. The 16" tires will handle our b-u-m-p-y streets and sidewalks (and the dirt roads at the George Ranch, woo-hoo!) just fine. I tried a new model out at Babies'R'Us earlier in the week and Carmen really, really liked it when I pushed her at a run (in the store, hee hee). I'm sure David will like it, too. Found a plastic rain cover at the BRU clearance rack, to keep out the cold and wet. Yay!

In the summer I'll re-evaluate how C&D might do in the Wellness Center childcare facility and maybe reunite with my yoga class. Until then, this should keep us all busy. Wheee!

Wednesday, December 07, 2005

FAQ: 10 Months Old

C&D turned 10 months the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. To celebrate, we played with our new push wagon and prepared for a plane trip to Nana's house. David likes the wagon the best, and when he isn't trying to push it he wants to ride in it, back and forth, back and forth in the living room.

Between C&D's usual mischief, the Thanksgiving holiday, and some mischief of my own I have had much time to post. Here instead are some answers to questions people have been asking us lately.

Everything you wanted to know about C&D at 10 months old, and even stuff you didn't.

Are they talking yet?

Not really. David will most often express himself in smiles, wheezes, sighs, and pouts. Carmen can say or imitate a few words and apparently speaks !Kung. Ever since that one visit from Nana, she loves to engage in a conversation of tongue clicks. Yesterday I found out that she will try to imitate the words in a SigningTime DVD that I picked up at the library. For example, when she heard "cookie" she imitated the lilt of the word and and the "oo" sound. She says things like "dada" and "mama" but, like so many of her other sounds--she really seems to say them purely for the pleasure of hearing her own voice.

Can they sign?
A little. "Milk" is understood, but they don't always sign "milk" to us. Carmen is beginning to sign "all done" more frequently, and if you tease her with O's will sign a rudimentary "more" by putting her right hand on top of her left. David doesn't really sign, but is often much more patient than Carmen and may not feel as much of a need to do so.

What do they like to do?
David likes to chase the cat, touch the cat, talk to the cat, watch the cat, grab big fistfuls of cat. With great concentration he will smear his food--especially the mushy stuff--all over the table or his booster seat tray. His fingers will make hills and valleys of mush, and he will watch the water dripping from his sippy cup fill the valleys and form rivers and lakes. He will also drop his food, spoons, and cups unceremoniously, always to his right, and then peer over and stare at them on the floor, his fingers wiggling and reaching toward them. Sweet potatoes, oatmeal, chicken with herbes de provence (their favorite way to eat it)--it all goes overboard. He likes to knock down towers of blocks, while Carmen tries to figure out how to put them back. They both like to pull themselves up on anything--laundry baskets, toy baskets, nearby adults and each other. They go up, down, up, down, up down. The Baby Bungee Bouncers of several months ago were brought back out of the closet recently, and C&D very much enjoy hopping, hopping, hopping. David will jump and scissor open his legs in mid-air. Books are more popular than ever, especially those with sound effects like Mr. Brown Can Moo and The Big Red Barn. The games I like best are playing "nosey nosey" and "kissy kissy." Nothing is better than a big, slobbery, baby kiss.

Are they walking?
Only if we help them balance. God help us when they figure it out.

How are your nights?
Heh, heh.

What did you do for Thanksgiving?
Took a short plane ride to Nana's house. David wailed the whole way over. Fortunately we were only in the air about 35 minutes. The flight home was much more pleasant, perhaps because David seemed to figure out that has long as he nursed, his ears didn't bother as much as when he didn't. At Nana's we saw our first Christmas tree, with a Thomas the Tank Engine train going around underneath it. We rode in the new truck, which was outfitted with C&D's old Britax car seats. The way to Nana's house in the new truck wasn't so fun because C&D were tired and still upset from the plane ride, but on the way back to the airport my dad played their favorite Los Lonely Boys CD and the babies fell asleep before we even entered the freeway.

At Nana's house C&D played with Uncle John, who made sure that they received an introduction to the various cuts of beef. After a hearty Thanksgiving lunch we enjoyed Aunt Zelda's music on the piano while we rolled all over the parquet floors on a walker borrowed from the Shepherd of the Hills nursery. We only had one walker, so the babies took turns, one pushing the walker and the other riding along.





Sunday, the first Sunday in Advent, C&D went to church to be baptized. C&D thought church was a great place to be loud and silly, so we spent most of the service outside waiting for everyone to come out. Pastor Moore did the baptizing. My parents came and we went out for lunch afterward. The babies dropped penne pasta all over the floor of the restaurant, but thankfully nobody seemed to mind.

Have the babies visited Santa?
Not yet. They might meet Santa on Saturday. December 1st Bellaire had a Christmas festival that we attended, though. C&D saw the petting zoo. David laughed when the llama snorted on his head, but, like Carmen, was really more interested in the other children and the lights and all the other goings-on. They were not even amused by the chickens roosting on the llama. David did like the white twinkly lights on the trees, and Carmen liked Rudolph's nose. We stayed long enough to watch Santa ride in on his fire truck, and then came back home in time for bed.

Well, I had more to say, but have run out of time to say it. Looking forward to starting some new traditions with C&D's first Christmas (they already had their first St. Nicholas Day!) and watching them figure out some of their new Montessori- and Waldorf-style toys (you're going to get us some, Santa, right?).

Tuesday, December 06, 2005

Amautik Weather

It's finally seasonably cool (no more 83-degree Saturday afternoons for at least a few weeks), and thoughts take me to warm and snuggly babywearing. I wish Houston got colder so I could use one of these Inuit carriers. So cozy!

Saturday, December 03, 2005

Thursday, December 01, 2005

Aw Duh! for now

Hard to find time to post, lately. The babies aren't sleeping like usual this week, and of course over the Thanksgiving weekend we had more than the usual excitement. C&D are increasingly mobile (mixed blessing?) and mischievous (David discovered the DVD player, doh) and have even begun to try to talk . . . Carmen says "all done" (aw duh! aw duh! aw duh!), "cat" (ca!) and has some pretty serious conversations with David every now and then. Wonder what they're talking about?

Carmen stirs, but watch for a big big big post very soon . . . I'll try my hardest.

Oh, and Fisher-Price is not my friend. Stupid, junky Fisher-Price toys.

Feel better, thanks. Now I can go to sleep. Aw duh! Aw duh!

Sunday, November 20, 2005

Busy, busy, busy!

Carmen is sleeping in the swing right now. She has been in constant motion today, even in her sleep. Hopefully the swing will help her rest.

Saturday we drove out to Saratoga for the Big Thicket Association Annual Meeting. I am the BTA Treasurer. After a rough night, an early morning, and then a long drive hearing the babies complain--or worrying that they might start complaining again whenever they did stop--I arrived just in time for the Treasurer's report. I huffed into the meeting room, stared at the crowd, and blinked. What was I doing there and who were these people, again? I don't remember what I said but Matt assured me it did make sense. Whew, good thing.

The babies didn't let us stay long, but we did at least visit a little bit. I want to visit Maxine and everybody again, but I've got to persuade the babies that they need to learn to sleep in the car. Sandi Elsik (in the plaid shirt) reminded me I never slept in the car, myself. I did bring them a couple of new toys and their Los Lonely Boys CD, and they did amuse each other for a little while by talking in their own little baby language to each other ("where are they taking us now?" they said), but it just wasn't enough. Fortunately on the drive back we didn't have to make any stops, although C&D made it apparent to us that they were happy to be home.

Today: . . . Carmen showed Matt that she could stand for a few seconds on her own. David probably could, if he wanted to, but he is more cautious, and instead busies himself by taking all toys out of--and them putting them back into--his wicker basket. The basket has about 30 pounds of weight on the bottom, so C&D can hoist themselves up without tipping it. (Not that they don't try.)

. . . Matt did help David learn the art of unpacking a bookshelf. Next lesson: putting everything back?

. . . a stray cat learned that at lunchtime two frazzled parents might put out two highchairs outside to be cleaned during naptime, and that the highchairs might be full, like they were today, of chicken, oat groats, zucchini, and butternut squash. The stray cat also learned that those two parents, one of whom was cooking and the other of whom was helping a baby stand up while being climbed upon by the other, are too busy to really stop him from having quite a nice lunch, and even the supposed resident cat considered himself to busy to do anything about it.

. . . while we were cooking, Carmen was practicing standing by using David as a bolster. While David is on all fours she'll push herself up, one hand on his back, the other high above her head as if she were riding a bucking bronco.
C&D try climbing up on each other pretty often; Carmen gets mad and complains when David tries to hoist himself up, but David often laughs and pulls on her shirt when she uses little brother as a piece of playground equipment. We tried to catch it on camera, but missed.

Friday, November 18, 2005

Inside the Pitter Patter Catterpillar


David is only brave enough to crawl about halfway through before turning around and coming back out, and Carmen is more interested in finding a way to go over the tunnel rather than through it.

Wednesday, November 16, 2005

It's a Happy Thanksgiving Present!

Well, not really. Two cute babies don't need excuses for getting presents, right?

Think they'll like it?

Tuesday, November 15, 2005

A Bicycle Built For Two . . .

two babies!

Wouldn't get it because we don't have a lot of places to use it around here, but STILL, wouldn't I feel like the coolest twin-mama EVER?

An accounting

Promised I would share, and I forgot until I was looking over some numbers (Big Thicket Association budget) yesterday.

At their last checkup (October 25th):
Carmen weighed 20 pounds, 8 ounces; measured at 27 and 5/8 inches.
David weighed at 20 pounds, 10 ounces; meaured at 27 and 7/8 inches.

The weights shocked us, because Carmen still has the remarkable ability to feel as heavy as a bag of lead when we pick her up, whereas David magically levitates up into our arms.

Monday, November 14, 2005

Not Quite Ready

C&D are happy, nondiscriminating eaters. But we aren't quite ready for Earl Abel's.

David figures if he smears his food in the general direction of his face, some of it will land in his mouth . . .

Carmen's aim is much more accurate, but she is not quite convinced that she cannot fit an entire slice of cucumber in her mouth.

They're messy, but they're cute, so I guess we'll keep them.

Friday, November 11, 2005

These Days

What is it like for me to be home alone with C&D these days? Well, Thursday it looked like this:


When they got a little fussy I put on a Los Lonely Boys DVD that I picked up at the library earlier in the week. When the music started David smiled and Carmen started bouncing on her poofy, cloth-diapered butt. Their favorite song is Heaven, judging by the arm-flapping and bouncing. Who needs Baby Einstein?




Almost had an accident with a semi truck on Wednesday on the way to the co-op. Blech. Right now my paradise is a place where Central Market, Whole Foods, and the co-op are within easy walking distance. Worst thing that would happen in that case would be, what? Tripping? No such pedestrian paradise exists in Houston, though.




From an e-mail Thursday morning:
Carmen proved yesterday to Fiona that she can crawl, too, but she would rather alternate sitting from being on all fours. She moves sort of like a spirograph, around and around and around.
That afternoon, Carmen crawled a couple of feet and directly into the wall. She stopped, sat down, and started twirling and whirling again.




On the bookshelf: The Absorbent Mind. What I like best in this book by Maria Montessori (the Montessori) is her clear sense of wonder at the process of child development. Here's a nice little piece from this week:
To know, to love and to serve is the trimonial of all religions, but the child is the
true maker of our spirituality. He teaches us the plan of nature for giving form to our conduct and character, a plan fully traced out in all its details of age and work, with its need for freedom and intense activity in accordance with the laws of life.
Nice. I started Montessori from the Start this past week, too. I think I'll snuggle with Carmen right now and read it a bit.




Today our biggest accomplishment was a successful trip and visit to Young and Restless for some knit pants with lots of room for cloth-diapered baby butts. We have a to-do list three miles long; wonder what we'll manage to get done tomorrow?

Sunday, November 06, 2005

We Have Crawling!

Well, we did have crawling, more than the three-steps-and-I'm-finished kind of crawling, until David noticed his reflection in the diaper pail and decided to kneel up and talk to it.

Oh, well.

I just loved the sound of those fat little hands slapping the hardwood floor as he crossed the room. This is going to be fun. And the room is almost babyproofed . . . just in time.

This weekend we rearranged some furniture to separate the cribs. When C&D are napping they wake each other up. You would think after nine months of napping in the same room they would stop waking up with each other, but we have many days when we walk in to find them lying in bed, looking at each other, and wondering what exciting events (e.g., the cat walking in, sorting the diaper laundry?) they might be missing in the rest of the house.

So now a swing and crib is in the master bedroom, a crib and two dressers (mine and Matt's) are in the babies' room, and a swing and rocking chair in the back bedroom. A set of shelves in the living room for the babies' toys and books and socks and hats (the two types of clothing we are perpetually losing). We'll see how it all works. Hopefully tomorrow I can finish putting things away.

Tomorrow also the babies get to taste homemade cranberry sauce with their lunch. I think they'll like it. They certainly enjoy the pleasures of the table, gobbling up chicken curries and spiced sweet potatoes and cold, fresh pineapples with equal enthusiasm. The cranberry sauce should be no exception. We're still eating carefully, but we're avoiding our usual allergy suspects and the babies' little tummies lately seem pretty fine. Hurray!

Saturday, November 05, 2005

Sweetest Laugh Ever . . .

from the sweetest little boy ever:




(Like the OK Corral? Great little spot for the babies to safely hang out while we make dinner? And big enough for a Daddy to fit inside, too!)

Learning something new every day

They're changing so fast. I started this post DAYS ago and keep adding on and editing out those things that are no longer true. Time to just click "publish!"

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29 October:

C&D have been living on earth a whopping 9 months since Sunday, and are learning more every day.

Carmen has added a singsong "Da-da-da-da-da" to her vocal repertoire, but, alas, it is not enough. Sometimes when she wants more food she'll frown and twist her little mouth around in an effort to say something that finally spills out of her mouth in one long, wet, raspberry. (If that doesn't work, she'll start screeching . . . better to intervene before the screeching sets in!) Sometimes she signs "all done," but what she really means is, "more." Maybe she does mean that she is all done, and so she expects more? Hopefully in the next few weeks as her dexterity improves (and we begin noticing her attempts at communicating) we'll all be making a little more sense. In this picture she is preparing for Halloween weekend by smearing beets on her face. We won't do beets again until we're sure she has better aim when feeding herself.

David loves giving kisses, which have felt a little more interesting now that those two little bottom teeth are more prominent. We'll have to work on that.

Carmen had two top teeth come through, and is working on two more on the opposite side. With her top teeth and bottom teeth she has discovered she can take little (and sometimes very big) bites of things like sliced water chestnuts and pretzels and raw sweet potatoes and cool, crunchy haricots vert. She also thinks it's lovely to grind them together while I rock her at night. We'll have to work on that, too.

David has learned that it's really funny to be sitting next to your sister, and then give her a big shove and watch her fall over. Fortunately sister doesn't mind too much (right now).

But it's not like Carmen is victim to a big bad brother; the other day, while he was playing quietly alone, she kicked David's rear in a rapid rat-tat-tat rhythm while she flapped her arms and sang. Fortunately brother doesn't mind too much (right now).

Carmen still doesn't crawl; instead she alternates between flopping on her belly and sitting up. She can locomote this way, alternately flopping and sitting until she meets an obstacle (e.g., the wall, or the aforementioned brother). While this is not efficient, she does move forward and back and around like the knight on a chess board, moving nowhere fast but moving, nonetheless, and winding up someplace apparently random that to her might actually be very deliberate. (Although last week, when on the slippery hardwood and wearing a pair of Babylegs, she managed to move nowhere despite a good bit effort for at least ten minutes.) Last week Matt set her down on the rug while he unloaded groceries from the car, and found her kissing her her reflection in the diaper pail when he finished. Coincidence? Of course not, said Carmen. She rolls toward something she wants, too, but not very far. I would suppose rolling across the room would make her feel a little dizzy. She also loves to roll around in the bed, which is a little frightening because the bed, unlike the floor, has edges. For a few weeks now she has felt compelled to do downward dogs when she is on the floor, and her pose is actually looking better every day (what next, cobra? cat-cow?). She pulls herself up to her knees and tries to stand, but occassionally finds herself stuck or a little confused in this new position, and will experiment no further.

David finally began crawling today, but only a few crawls at a time before stopping. We were playing on the bed, rolling and sitting and flopping just like Carmen, and he wanted very much to reach my LED headlamp because it is bright and interesting and apparently tasty, as well. He drags his right leg behind when he moves, and he is not very fast, but I expect by the end of the week I will be glad I am no longer working because I will desperately need to finish childproofing the house. David enjoys standing up very, very much, but has not yet figured out how to transition from sitting to standing. He can easily pull himself to kneeling, so I wonder how many days or weeks will pass before he can finish hoisting himself up. One of his favorite activities is to hold on to or lean on a basket weighted with 30 pounds of barbell weights. Inside the basket are some toys that he will pick up and drop, and a large pine cone from the Big Thicket that he alternately drops, pets, and tries to eat.

Two of C&D's favorite things are the cat and any fish tank. The cat serves as an inspiration for crawling, squirming, rolling, flopping, stepping, or hopping in any one direction, and when he walks out of a room they crane their necks around the corner to see where he might have gone. Likewise, the fish tanks at Whole Foods, the Galleria, even Petsmart fascinate and captivate. The random, fluid movements and bright colors receive complete attention. So Friday, the Friday before Halloween, the zoo was open late and we took the babies to see animals larger and more colorful than the cat, and more numerous than the fish in the tropical tank at Whole Foods.

C&D could have cared less about the elephants, the giraffes, the tigers. These animals were maybe too big for them to get their mind around. Maybe an elephant is no different than an SUV, a giraffe no more strange than a UPS truck, a tiger no more real than a picture in a book. So the babies, politely bored, rode in their slings and watched the many naughty children run around like the wild animals Matt and I were futiley trying to point out.

All this, until I decided we needed to visit the flamingoes. The babies flapped and stomped, and leaned in toward the exhibit until I was afraid they might fall. The flamingoes chased one another and spread out their wings, all pink and loud and very, very real. After the flamingoes' show we decided to take C&D to another place that we knew would be a sure hit--the aquarium. Carmen watched the fish in the tanks while David lunged forward and tried to touch them, his palm lightly slapping the glass. We lingered at the last and largest tank, David standing nose to nose to a group of resting sharks.

Feeling adventurous, the next day we took a visit to the George Ranch with the intention of breathing fresh country air and visiting some livestock. We did, although Carmen and David liked the hay most of all, and David tried stuffing it into his mouth by the fistful. The ranch is wonderful, with several period buildings and actors from the 1830's to the 1930's. We found the hay (next to some pigs, oxen, and chickens) in the barn next to a dogtrout house. We liked going to the ranch so much that we bought a year-long membership so we could visit the gardens and the animals and the friendly pioneers, sharecroppers, cowboys and ranchers as often as we want. Maybe when the babies are bigger we can volunteer there in exchange for the opportunity to take care of some animals and wear bonnets and big straw hats. And eat more hay, clearly. Hmm.

Let's see, what else has happened recently? We had some fun tie-dying some shirts, can you tell? We needed some long-sleeve shirts for fall's cooler days, so I bought some nice, soft long-sleeved t's at Dharma Trading Company and one nice day Fiona and I experimented with different tie and dye combinations while Carmen slept and David rolled around on a blanket and studied the leaves in the trees. We dyed about 20 shirts, including some cut-up onesies . . . we are SO over the color white! More than our attempts at spirals and random splashes of color, I think I like the striped shirts best.

The perhaps unfortunate side effect of our adventure in the fiber arts is that our children are clearly the most color-uncoordinated children this side of Texas. Good thing they're pretty darn cute.

Whew. That's all for now. Will share more when I can!